Preventing Adverse Childhood Experiences and reducing their effects

 

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The effects of ACEs are treatable and preventable

 

Getting help

 

Counselling can help
 

135,000 adults who completed an ACE questionnaire and then talked about their childhood experiences produced a 35% reduction in GP visits and an 11% reduction in A&E visits over the following year compared with that group’s prior year use.

"We realized that asking via a questionnaire with later listening and implicitly accepting the person, is a powerful form of doing." Dr Vincent Felitti 2019

People with ACEs scores are therefore likely to benefit from a counselling session.
 

 

What is counselling?
 

Counselling is a talking therapy that involves an accredited counsellor listening to you and helping you find ways to deal with emotional issues.

At your counselling appointment, you will be encouraged to talk about your feelings and emotions.
 
An accredited counsellor will listen to you and support you without judging or criticising.

The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) is the professional association for members of the counselling professions in the UK. Access their extensive directory of 16,000 counsellors via the link below.

They promote and facilitate research to produce trusted best practice, and provide a robust framework to ensure the profession follows and adheres to the highest possible standards that protect individuals seeking therapy.

Please note that booking counselling is not the right solution for you if:
  • You are under 18 or you are under the care of a legal guardian.
  • You feel you are in crisis and need help right now – if so, click this link.
  • You feel you are in danger or need urgent medical help – if so, call 999.
  • You were required to undergo therapy either by a court order or by any other authority.
We sincerely hope your counselling session will really help you.
   

Too big a step right now?
 

We know that some people find it difficult to start to talk to a counsellor but lately some very public individuals have openly talked about their own problems. If they can, so can we. Don't tough it out. Don't think the effect of your ACEs is minimal compared to others' problems. 

Strong people can ask for help, just like anyone else can. If there is a chance that you will feel more confident, less sad and anxious, and more in control of your life, will you take it?

All counsellors aim to build a trusting and non-judgmental relationship where you feel safe and empowered to explore anything that is troubling you. You can start building such a relationship today through acting on the information above.

If you are still uncertain, why not sign up to our mailing list for occasional tips while you think things through.
 
Glenys
Hello and welcome to our church. If you are a new visitor, we have a page for you to get to know us and learn more about planning a visit.
Click here to see more.

Planning your Visit

A Warm Hello 

The following information is specifically for those planning a visit, so that you know, beforehand, what to expect on a Sunday morning.

Where and When

We meet at the Church Building (details here) for our Sunday Service starting at 10am. For your first visit, we recommend arriving 10-15 minutes early to ensure you get a parking space and find somewhere to sit before the service begins. When you arrive, you should be greeted by someone on our Welcome Team who will be wearing a Welcome lanyard.

We serve tea, coffee and biscuits from 10am, before the service begins. It is a great way to meet people, or simply take time to find your bearings. All refreshments are free.

Accessibility: There is wheelchair access, and a sound loop for anyone who needs it. Please let one of the Welcome Team know on your arrival and they will help you to get set up. There are disabled toilets in the main foyer.

Our Service

The main service begins at 10am with a warm welcome from one of our team members. Then follows a time of sung worship, led by our band. We typically have 2 or 3 songs lasting approximately 20 minutes. Sometimes a person might pray out loud or read a small passage from the bible. Sometimes people share things that they believe God is saying to the whole church family. This might seem strange the first time you hear it but it’s all part of our connecting with God. We then share news and notices, usually about what’s going on in the life of the church. One of our leaders will then give a sermon that is bible based and that we can apply to our everyday life. We then finish with a final worship song. Sometimes there is an opportunity to receive prayer at the end of the service.

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What about my kids?

We have a great programme lined up for kids of all ages:

  • Creche (0 months to 3 years). Children under 6 months are welcome but must be accompanied by their parent/grown-up at all times.
  • Livewires (3-7 years)
  • Encounter (7-11 years)
  • Katalyst (11-15 years)
  • Young people (15+ years) Stay in service.

Children stay with their parent or grown-up at the start of the service for the welcome, songs and notices. We really value worshipping God all together as a family. At the end of the notices someone will announce that it’s time for the younger members to go to their various groups. You will need to go with your children to their groups and register them as part of our child safety policy. Whilst you are dropping your kids off at their groups, we pause to take time to chat to someone sitting near or next to us, giving folk a chance to come back before the sermon begins.

The kids group activities vary depending on the age but usually there is a friendly welcome, bible stories, testimonies, praying, music, craft, drama, fun games and free play. Please pick your children up as soon as the service finishes.

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Getting Connected


Small Groups

While Sundays are a great way to meet new people, it is often in smaller gatherings that you can really get to know someone. Being part of one of our small groups allows you to make new friends, share together and support each other. We have a variety of groups that meet throughout the week, some afternoons and some evenings. Check out Small Groups and see if there’s one that you could join, or we can put you in touch with a small group leader who will be more than happy to invite you along to their group.

Serving and Volunteering

If you want to get involved in the life of the church and help us make Sundays run smoothly, you can sign up to serve on a team. 

Other Ministries

We also run the following ministries:

  • Men's Ministries
  • Women's Ministries
  • Night Shelter
  • Foodbank
     
Get in touch with us to plan your visit
If you would like to come and visit the church beforehand you are more than welcome! Get in touch and we can arrange a time that suits you.
 
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Next, we will contact you by email to say hello and help arrange anything necessary for your visit.
 

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We hope that whoever you are, you will feel at home at our church.

Best Wishes

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