Preventing Adverse Childhood Experiences and reducing their effects

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What are ACEs?

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are stressful events occurring in childhood as listed in the study below.

In 1995, a multi-year survey commenced of 17,000 middle class patients in a health care plan in California USA which looked at their health and also asked what childhood traumas they had experienced.

Ten childhood traumas were listed in the categories of personal; (abuse and neglect) and family (dysfunction):

Sexual abuse
Verbal abuse
Physical abuse
Emotional neglect
Physical neglect

Parent who is mentally ill
Parent who is an alcoholic
Mother who is a domestic violence victim
Family member who has been jailed
Loss of parent through divorce or abandonment

When the doctor conducting the research first saw the results, he was stunned. “I wept,” he says. “I saw how much people had suffered and I wept.”
 
As well as suffering, what did the data reveal?

There was a direct link between childhood trauma and a higher risk of adult onset of chronic disease, as well as mental illness, doing time in prison, and work issues, such as absenteeism. This does not mean that these diseases and events will not occur in someone who had experienced a low level of childhood trauma but the RISK of this is much lower.

About two-thirds of the adults in the study had experienced one or more types of Adverse Childhood Experiences. Of those, 87 percent had experienced 2 or more types. ACEs usually didn’t happen in isolation.

More Adverse Childhood Experiences resulted in a higher risk of medical, mental and social problems as an adult. People with high ACE scores are more likely to be violent, to have more marriages, more broken bones, more drug prescriptions, more depression, more auto-immune diseases, and more work absences.
 
Yet these were average citizens. They were middle-class, middle-aged, and 74 percent were college-educated. They all had jobs and great health care. Their average age was 57.
 
The ACE Study, which has been replicated many times over, became even more significant with the publication of parallel research that provided the link between why something that happened to you when you were a child could land you in the hospital later. The stress of severe and chronic childhood trauma releases toxic stress hormones that physically damage a child’s developing brain.
 
Children with toxic stress live much of their lives in fight, flight or fright (freeze) mode. They respond to the world as a place of constant danger. With their brains overloaded with stress hormones and unable to function appropriately, they can’t focus on learning. They fall behind in school or fail to develop healthy relationships with peers or create problems with teachers and principals because they are unable to trust adults. Some kids do all three. With despair, guilt and frustration pecking away at their psyches, they often find solace in food, alcohol, tobacco, methamphetamine, inappropriate sex, high-risk sports, and/or work and over-achievement.
 
They don’t regard these coping methods as problems. Consciously or unconsciously, they use them as solutions to escape from depression, anxiety, anger, fear and shame.

We need to recognise and develop the “resilience” of the developing child—the brain’s and the body’s ability to manage and recover from severe stress, as well as how caring relationships can act as an antidote to stress. People who have experienced trauma should not be “defined” by their trauma. Adversity is not destiny.

 
PLEASE NOTE - The Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) score is a relatively crude measure of cumulative childhood stress exposure that can vary widely from person to person. Unlike recognized public health screening measures, such as blood pressure that use measurement reference standards and thresholds for clinical decision making, the ACE score is not a standardized measure of childhood exposure to  stress.

Why is this? The questions from the ACE study cannot fully assess the frequency, intensity, or chronicity of exposure to an ACE or differences in the timing of exposure. For example, 2 people, each having an ACE score of 4, may have different lifetime exposures, timing of exposures, or positive experiences or protective factors that affect stress. A person with an ACE score of 1 may have experienced intense, chronic, and unrelenting exposure to a single type of abuse, whereas another person who has experienced low-level exposure to multiple adversities will have a higher ACE score.

As a result, projecting the risk of health or social outcomes based on any individual’s ACE score can lead to significant underestimation or overestimation of actual risk. However you will know how ACEs affected you and you can seek help.

 
More on the ACEs Study     Find out your ACEs score
Glenys
Hello and welcome to our church. If you are a new visitor, we have a page for you to get to know us and learn more about planning a visit.
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Planning your Visit

A Warm Hello 

The following information is specifically for those planning a visit, so that you know, beforehand, what to expect on a Sunday morning.

Where and When

We meet at the Church Building (details here) for our Sunday Service starting at 10am. For your first visit, we recommend arriving 10-15 minutes early to ensure you get a parking space and find somewhere to sit before the service begins. When you arrive, you should be greeted by someone on our Welcome Team who will be wearing a Welcome lanyard.

We serve tea, coffee and biscuits from 10am, before the service begins. It is a great way to meet people, or simply take time to find your bearings. All refreshments are free.

Accessibility: There is wheelchair access, and a sound loop for anyone who needs it. Please let one of the Welcome Team know on your arrival and they will help you to get set up. There are disabled toilets in the main foyer.

Our Service

The main service begins at 10am with a warm welcome from one of our team members. Then follows a time of sung worship, led by our band. We typically have 2 or 3 songs lasting approximately 20 minutes. Sometimes a person might pray out loud or read a small passage from the bible. Sometimes people share things that they believe God is saying to the whole church family. This might seem strange the first time you hear it but it’s all part of our connecting with God. We then share news and notices, usually about what’s going on in the life of the church. One of our leaders will then give a sermon that is bible based and that we can apply to our everyday life. We then finish with a final worship song. Sometimes there is an opportunity to receive prayer at the end of the service.

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What about my kids?

We have a great programme lined up for kids of all ages:

  • Creche (0 months to 3 years). Children under 6 months are welcome but must be accompanied by their parent/grown-up at all times.
  • Livewires (3-7 years)
  • Encounter (7-11 years)
  • Katalyst (11-15 years)
  • Young people (15+ years) Stay in service.

Children stay with their parent or grown-up at the start of the service for the welcome, songs and notices. We really value worshipping God all together as a family. At the end of the notices someone will announce that it’s time for the younger members to go to their various groups. You will need to go with your children to their groups and register them as part of our child safety policy. Whilst you are dropping your kids off at their groups, we pause to take time to chat to someone sitting near or next to us, giving folk a chance to come back before the sermon begins.

The kids group activities vary depending on the age but usually there is a friendly welcome, bible stories, testimonies, praying, music, craft, drama, fun games and free play. Please pick your children up as soon as the service finishes.

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Getting Connected


Small Groups

While Sundays are a great way to meet new people, it is often in smaller gatherings that you can really get to know someone. Being part of one of our small groups allows you to make new friends, share together and support each other. We have a variety of groups that meet throughout the week, some afternoons and some evenings. Check out Small Groups and see if there’s one that you could join, or we can put you in touch with a small group leader who will be more than happy to invite you along to their group.

Serving and Volunteering

If you want to get involved in the life of the church and help us make Sundays run smoothly, you can sign up to serve on a team. 

Other Ministries

We also run the following ministries:

  • Men's Ministries
  • Women's Ministries
  • Night Shelter
  • Foodbank
     
Get in touch with us to plan your visit
If you would like to come and visit the church beforehand you are more than welcome! Get in touch and we can arrange a time that suits you.
 
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